Fellatio is a very intimate sex act. In fact, a lot of people feel that oral sex is way more intimate than intercourse itself. This is probably because oral sex produces feelings of vulnerability in a person, and it’s emotionally so intense to let someone so close to your most sensitive parts. It is a great way to not only show how well you trust your lover but also how badly you want them.
And yet, oral sex remains as one of the most pleasurable and orgasmic sex acts there is, so learning how to enjoy it fully — either giving or receiving — is an essential step in loving your sex life and making sure it’s as wonderful as it can be.
By the best oral sex techniques, we are talking about the techniques that do a lot more than just create specific angles and access to sensitive spots; they communicate your feelings and excitement to your lover about receiving it.
While standing up: One of the best oral sex positions that free up your girl’s hands is having the man stand up while your girl sits on the side of the bed or kneels in front of the man. The girl can use a pillow which would make it more comfortable in case you don’t have a carpeted floor. Sitting is more comfortable than kneeling for most people though.
Receiving oral sex while standing up opens several great pleasure benefits for the man. The best thing about this technique is that the girl can use her hands to add more stimulation to oral sex. Using hand job techniques during oral sex allows complete stimulation of the entire penis while taking the pressure off the girl to take the entire length of the guy’s shaft into her mouth. Standing also allows the guy to move his hips, which a lot of guys find highly pleasurable.
Queening: If you want to take control of your pleasure and give your lover an overwhelming experience, try queening. Face-sitting, also known as queening, is an oral sexual technique in which the girl sits on or over the guy’s face to allow oral-genital contact. In addition to oral-genital contact, this position also allows the guy’s hands-free to stimulate other hotspots (for example, anus, nipples, etc.).
The guy, who is on the top, maybe facing either direction in this position. It is common for this position to form part of BDSM, involving dominance and submission, though this need not be the case.
Don’t be shy about suggesting this position to your guy. Many guys actually fantasize about this experience and think that it is a total turn-on. Queening is truly empowering experience, so if you’re ready to claim your erotic power and charm, go ahead and assume the throne.